I remember Liki asking me;

L: Do you think girls should dumb themselves in front of guys?
K: Well, to a certain extent yes. Would you?
L: Yes, I think I will... you?
K: I would too, unless it's some jerk, lol.

It stays that way, I guess it'll always be.

I mean, there are just some lines we shouldn't cross. Like the way genders are stereotyped. Sometimes, you'd need those for some kind of order in the community. Those really do help define and assign roles in society.